You 5 years from now?

I honestly don't know the answer to that question. Everytime someone asked me..i have no clue! Is that wrong not to know your life in 5 years time? Who would know, right? Well, I know that we're supposed to have a goal in life..but I really don't know. Honestly!

The last attempt of me answering the question was..in 5 years time I envisioned myself being happy knowing that I have contributed something good and useful for the society. Knowing that I've given a good example to my child of how he should be of value to the society, world and life. To live not whining, but actively initiating solutions to make things better and happier. I guess my 5 years is pretty simple...happy!..I choose being happy over anything else as I believe that happiness is the core of achieving everything else in life.

So..let's be happy from now on!

Women and Men..are they really mars vs. venus?

I just realized that women and men are really completely different. They are both totally clueless about each other, but will take the effort to assume what the other is thinking. Creating stories and conclusions that are completely different than reality. But what's more interesting is that no matter how far the differences are..yet men and women are so much alike..both longed to be loved..to be cared of..to be ackbowledged..but most of the time they have it..they got it..but they just refuse or can't see it, as their minds  are clouded by their own assumptions..thoughts...which is far from the reality.

I realized this fact just now..after talking to my dad over dinner...and my mom a week ago..

In life...in relationship..sometimes its good to have someone else that can be the middle man to open the reality to us..cause without them we usually fail to see it..i was the middle man for my dad and mom..both of them smiled satisfied after hearing the reality..that both of them love each other very much♥♥♥

Good night.